A big family bill need not wipe out your safety net. Set up separate savings...

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A big family bill need not wipe out your safety net. Set up separate savings pots for the cost and emergencies, then test your plan against an awkward month with a repair, higher bills or less pay. You’ll see what you can truly afford before you commit.